Monday, May 17, 2010

The Rules of Love

The rules of love are actually very simple but some people including myself, sometimes struggle. But believe that shouldn't stop two from loving each unless it's really extreme. Some of these simple rules are being yourself (don't try to do too much), show interest when you talk to your partner, try not be forceful (let her talk about herself. A relationship should be a dialogue, not a monologue.), but you can't be too quite because women don't like it when men don't act like men. And the simplest but yet hardest rule is to express your feelings to her. Tell her you love her, give her hugs, etc. To break these rules, a guy either has to be unfaithful, not interested anymore, lie, or do something to hurt the girl's feelings. There is one rule that a guy should know. Girls are not very forgiving when it comes to a relationship. If you break a rule once, the most chances she will forgive you is maybe twice at the most. After that, your pretty much toast. If a guy wants to find or keep a relationship, I think they need to be confident and they have to earn the trust of the girl. These rules are not necessarily made up by someone but to me it’s just commonsense. Seriously, if you truly love someone, you would do anything for them. If you couldn’t do that for someone then you don’t truly love them. You might think you do but the truth is you don’t. On the other side, you might truly love someone but they don’t like you. Now what do you do? As sad as it sounds, you just have to move on. It’s better being with someone who enjoys you rather than someone who’s just with you because you want them to be.

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