Adversity

Sometimes in life, we are put to a challenge that we won't like weather it may be life or death, a relationship,a friendship, or something you have to decide upon. But what makes is how you deal with the adversity. I think that if you try to fight through it even if you don't achieve what you wanted, it will benefit you in the long-run and will learn what to do if you're put in the situation again. But if you quit and give up, you're not giving yourself a chance to mature and grow up. Some people think of adversity as shitty times and times where everything falls apart which it can very well be. But that will only happen if you let it happen. i think of adversity as a baby turtle. When turtles are first born, most of them either get eaten, before they reach the water,eaten when they get into the water, or they will survive and live long. Adversity is the same thing. You can either let it eat you up or you can fight it and become a better person. But it all depends on what we choose to do.

There are many ways to fight through adversity and grow from it. In some cases, adversity may lead to sacrificing the thing you love most. Sometimes, adversity could end up with everything being the same but a valid lesson is still learned. I think best way to handle adversity is give myself some possible solutions and as the time goes on and things happen, i can make my decision accordingly. The worst thing to do is think about the situation but not communicate to the people who ar involved. This can be very bad because the other people involved may take the information they hear the wrong way. So we need to let out our feelings but not our emotions. But win or lose, you can't stop fighting and leave no regrets. "It's not how hard you get hit, it's how hard you keep going after you get hit."